We, human beings, have a tendency to
categorize things we process whether they are situations or people. We often judge
ours and other peoples’ situations quickly, without enough information and with
no idea of what the future holds.
Here is a parable that will give us all
a very important lesson:
‘There once was a poor old man who owned a beautiful white
horse.
Whenever noblemen passed through the village, they always noticed the horse and offered handsome sums of money for the stallion. But the old man always declined their offers, saying, "This horse is my friend. How can I sell my friend?"
Whenever noblemen passed through the village, they always noticed the horse and offered handsome sums of money for the stallion. But the old man always declined their offers, saying, "This horse is my friend. How can I sell my friend?"
One morning the old man awoke to find the horse was gone. The
village people gathered and said, "Old man you were a fool not to sell the
horse. You could have been wealthy! Now it has been stolen, and you have
nothing. It is a great misfortune!" But the old man replied, "Don't
go so far as to say that. Whether the horse was stolen or not, or whether it is
a misfortune or a blessing, is unknown. All we know is that the horse is not in
the stable."
Some days later the horse returned, bringing with it several
beautiful wild mares. Again the village people gathered, and they said,
"Old man you were right! The horse was not stolen, and it was not a
misfortune. It was a blessing, and now you have many fine horses!" But the
old man replied, "Again you go too far. Don't say it's a good thing, don't
say it's a bad thing. Just say the horse is back. Whether it is a blessing or a
misfortune is unknown."
Some days later the old man's only son began to train the wild
mares, but he was thrown and trampled, and one of his legs was badly broken.
Again the village people gathered. "Oh old man, you were right! It was not
a blessing but a great misfortune, and now your only son is lame! With a sigh
the old man replied, "Don't say it's a good thing, don't say it's a bad
thing, just say my son has broken his leg. Whether it is a blessing or a
misfortune is unknown."
It happened that a few weeks later the
country went to war, and all the able bodied young men were forcibly taken for
the military. Only the old man's son was passed over, because he was crippled.
The whole village was crying and weeping, for they believed their sons would
probably be killed and never come home to them. In their grief they came to the
old man and said, "You were right old man, your son's injury has proven to
be a blessing. Your son may be crippled, but he is with you, while our sons are
gone forever! The old man simply shook his head and said, "Will you never
learn? Only say that your sons have been forced into the military and my son
has not. More than that is not known."
MORALE OF THE STORY => Observe the reality of what is and accept it. It’s what it is! There
is no need to judge! Simply accept things as they are and leave the rest to the
Creator. You never know what tomorrow brings!
Thank you for reading,
Lidia
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